Q. Hi. I am in a relationship with a man 5 years older than me. We are in our twenties. However, despite loving him so much, I am not able to enjoy sex with him. The reason being the fact that he comes really soon while we have sex almost every time. Not just that, he tries to wrap up foreplay really soon and starts having intercourse, even when I am not even thoroughly wet. He starts penetrating his penis into my vagina without any lubrication and comes in like 3-4 times of penetrating in and out. I am left in bed aroused and wanting for more. I have to later resort to masturbation to satisfy myself, but I really want to have sex with like real couples. What to do? I haven't yet confronted him because I am scared it will jeopardise our relationship. His penis length is medium and girth is also quite thin. I hate having sex with him as much as I love him.

Ans. Since you have not told your problem to him yet is where you have already jeopardised your relationship. You must talk to him and if you feel that he will break-up with you because you spoke your heart to him, then you probably need to rethink a lot of things. While nothing will ever start if you don't confront him, you must remember that there are ways the problem of premature ejaculation can be resolved. Premature ejaculation is when the man orgasm and emits out semen just before or shortly after beginning sexual intercourse. Now, this is quite a common problem but not without solutions. Here are a few easy ways to deal with premature ejaculation:

Premature ejaculation can be caused by several reasons. Some of them can even be psychological issues such as stress, depression, etc. Performance anxiety is another big issue that may lead to premature ejaculation. So now that you know how much these problems needs emotional help as well, you must talk to him about it and be supportive and solution-oriented, if you want to be in a relationship with him. Speak with an expert asap.

(This article is written for informative purpose only and shouldn’t be substituted for professional advice. Laws related to the subject discussed in the article may vary according to region.)

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