Q. I am a 27-year-old housewife married to a 30-year-old businessman. We live in a joint family and that has quite affected our sex lives. However, whenever we find some lone time we try to make good use of it. Very soon, we are planning to go on a trip for a week and hope to have some good time. However, while my husband is really good at pleasing me, I want to make him happy as well. I recently heard about men having G-spot as well, can you please tell me more about it?

Ans. The g-spot in men also sometimes known as the p-spot, is basically the prostate organ in men. Just behind the penis is the prostate located and it contains tons of sensitive nerve endings. Therefore just like a woman's g-spot, the prostate in men is quite easily stimulated through the rectum. The prostate has the ability to give men the best orgasms of their lives. The sensitive nerve endings are responsible for giving men amazing orgasm more precisely a full-body orgasm. However, a prostate orgasm may take some time and effort but is totally worth it. Perineum: How to Find and Stimulate This Hidden Erogenous Zone in Men and Women.

Here's how to stimulate male G-spot:

  • Go slow: You are not supposed to just rush into rubbing his prostate like it is Alladin's magic lantern. Go slow and start with stimulating the area around his anus first. Take your time with the stimulation and make notes of his reactions.

  • Use lube: Unlike the vagina, the anus does not lubricate itself. Therefore opt for a good quality lube.

  • Use vibrators: Try stimulating his perineum and or prostate using vibrators instead of your hands first. Do not directly start with inserting the vibrator into his butt but just play around the anal area initially. Remember, the prostate is about three-quarters of a finger length inside the anus.

  • Don't ignore resistance: If you feel that there is resistance from him after a certain point of time, just stop.

  • Use your fingers as well as your tongue: Gently massage the opening of their anus with your fingers and your tongue as well. Perform proper oral sex of sorts at the beginning around the anus.

Most importantly make sure that he feels comfortable. Have a good discussion about it and do as much as he likes.

(This article is written for an informative purpose and should not be substituted for medical advice. Kindly consult your doctor before trying any tips.)

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