My Girlfriend Lied to Me and I Can't Trust Her Anymore! What Do I Do?

Living with lies has never done any good to a person or a relationship. In fact, it has made things worse. What if you happen to find out one day that your girlfriend has been lying to you about something really big? Take a look at this Reddit user's query for instance. He has been dating a girl since over a year and a half and every time she's in town, she makes it a point to let him know. However, when she was around during the last two trips, she didn't inform him. He somehow got to know and confronted her about the same. She lied to his face until he asked for a video call as proof. She had no choice but to accept that she had been lying to him and that she was actually in town. So, what was her reason for not telling him? Well, she apparently wanted to spend some time with her friends and family. Cheated On Your Partner? Here's How to Save Your Relationship and Feel Less Awful.

Now, we know this might hurt you but the answer is loud, clear and simple here. The fact that she has been lying to you clearly indicates that she doesn't want to see you anymore. Given that you both have been in a relationship since over a year, it's kinda obvious that you've both reached the level of understanding that's required for any relationship to work. We're sure if she had told you that during her trip she wanted to spend some time only with her family and friends, you would've understood and given her the space she needed. Is Your Relationship In Trouble? 8 Subtle Signs That Your Partner Is Taking You For Granted.

Another red flag you fail to acknowledge is that she refused to spend her birthday with you! She has been throwing subtle hints about not being into you anymore and you, my dear heartbroken friend, seem to be neglecting those. It can be tough to accept the truth but sometimes we outgrow people. And that's okay. But what's not okay is dishonesty. If she has lied to you twice, there are chances she will do it again. Ask yourself if you want to make yourself go through a situation like this again. If the answer is no, it's time to dump her and move the heck on!

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