Is It Okay to Masturbate in Front of Your Partner While Having Sex? – Sex Query of the Day

Despite the great sex you and your partner have, what if your girlfriend tells you she's not comfortable masturbating in front of you? You want to see her touch herself to double- up the pleasure so that you both can enjoy even better sex. This Reddit user wants to know whether it is okay to masturbate in front of their partner.

Sex Query of the Day: Can You Masturbate in Front of a Boyfriend or Girlfriend During Sex?

A. Good sex is the key to having great intimacy with your partner. It is extremely erotic and sexy if your girlfriend wants to masturbate in front of you while you're in the act. While you might already be turned on, seeing your girlfriend masturbate in front of you will only arouse you more. But what if your girlfriend is shy and self-conscious? In such cases, it is your girlfriend who has to take charge of her inhibitions and insecurities, get rid of them and be able to comfortably masturbate in front of you. Masturbation is a very private act and a feeling that's very personal to you. So in the initial stages, your girlfriend may not necessarily be okay with the idea of doing it in front of you. However, as a partner, you will have to make her feel at ease when she's trying to do it while she's with you.

As for suggestions, your sex life may already be pretty interesting but what if you take it a notch higher? To spice up your sex life, you could always try different positions or try and set up the mood right by lighting up candles. If you say watching the show was what turned you on, you could also read or watch erotica or porn together and see how that works best for your sex life.

(This article is only for informative purpose and shouldn’t be substituted for professional advice.)

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