A new user of Reddit who is now turning 27 seems to make it hard to believe that she has never dated. In today's world, it would possibly hard to imagine that someone has never ever dated in their entire life! But it's true in her case. She is turning 27 pretty soon and as weird as it may sound, she has never been in a relationship before. To avoid an embarrassment, she tells people that she is 23. In her words, she is attractive and charming and is surrounded by engineers at work, who by the way, are single. From what it sounds like, she has everything in place! So, why hasn't the cupid struck on her as of yet?
First of all, hooking up with a co-worker may sound like a raunchy idea at first, but if things get ugly, it will just make your life hard as hell. So, we'd advice, to not date someone from your workplace. But since, you've said that you're not into Tinder or online dating, the only possibility that you have here left is looking for a suitable match in office. How to Get Him to Have Sex With You Fast – Sex Query of the Day.
Considering you're 27 and have no experience in dating, here are a few tips that could come in handy in approaching the guy.
1) Make the first move. Keep it cool and casual and subtly make the first move, without coming across as a desperate person. You might want to indulge in small talk and casually ask him for a cuppa coffee and see how it goes from there? Is It Okay to Get Upset Over a Break-Up That Happened Two Years Ago? – Relationship Query of the Day.
2) Exchange numbers. If the first date goes pretty well, it's obvious that you guys would exchange numbers. If he's into you, he'd ask for your number and a second date already.
3) PS: Don't get too seriously involved in the start. Since you said you're not into one night stands and don't believe in the hook- up culture, it's only fair enough to not jump into a full- fledged relationship either.
Start talking to a few guys, figure out their likes/ dislikes, their opinions and thoughts before you take the next step. It's really not that difficult but you ought to put yourself out there if you don't want to end up being single for the next 27 years. So go ahead, and find your Mr. Right!
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