Signs That He Is In a Relationship with You Only For Sex

It's so great to meet someone with whom you share a great chemistry. The gripping conversation and similar values give you reason to believe that this is that one person with whom you would finally want to settle down. But again, you cannot judge a book by its cover. After a few dates, this charmer may have no interest in an intimate and meaningful relationship with you. His real agenda is only to have sex with you. Watch out for these warning signs.

1. He Wants To Meet You Only At His Apartment

A call for a cosy movie session at his residence is not a date. Do not convince yourself otherwise. If every date is a bedroom date, he is definitely only looking for a physical relationship with you.

2. He is A Little Too Good in Reminding You about Your Belongings

"Don't forget to take your lipstick" or "Remember to pick your sandals", do you get these reminders often? These could be signs that he has other women too, to satisfy his desires. He does not want to let you go but he does not want to lose other prospects either. Getting Back With Your Ex? Here’s How to Make Your Relationship Work the Second Time. 

3. He Makes Every Chat Sexual

You cracked a big job interview and he says “I bet you looked smoking hot today." You buy new dim lights and he says "I can't wait to get close to you in those lights." Seems like this guy only wants an opportunity to turn every compliment or ever chat into a hot chat. Do yourself a favour and stay away from such creeps if you are looking for a serious relationship.

4. He Never Makes You Breakfast

There can be nothing more special than a morning after-meal with messy hair and puffy eyes. If he is really interested in you, he would make you the bed tea and surprise you with a nice breakfast spread. If he is not, you might probably have to settle with a packet of chips on your way back home. Leaving Your Partner For Another Person Won’t Improve Your Love Life, Says New Study. 

5. He Is Too Busy To Make Plans

Does he turn you down every time you make movie or dinner plans? And is it always a "yes" when it comes to a sexual hangout? This is a clear sign that he just wants to bed you. Think logically. If he is too busy to take you out for dinner dates, he would have little time for sex too.

6. He Never Introduces You to His Friends

If he really wants you to be an integral part of his life, he would love you to spend time with his friends and family. Keeping you away from his social circle is an obvious sign that your relationship is not heading in the right direction.

7. He Is Not Into Foreplay

If he really loves and respects you, he would want to move from having sex with you to making love with you. If he is only into sex, he will not spend much time kissing or loving you. He would want to get straight to the point because probably you are just an object of sex. Cheated On Your Partner? Here's How to Save Your Relationship and Feel Less Awful. 

Remember most charming men who are only interested in sexual relationships are smart enough to avoid sexual conversation when they first meet you. Their goal is to make you feel safe and seducible by giving you the impression – they are not like "all the rest."

(The above story first appeared on LatestLY on Sep 03, 2019 04:36 PM IST. For more news and updates on politics, world, sports, entertainment and lifestyle, log on to our website latestly.com).