Q. My boyfriend loves handjobs. However, I am always unsure about the pressure I must put while I stroke his shaft. Once when I was going so hard that I hurt him in the process. Following the incident, I have always been sceptical about giving a hand to my partner. What is the right way to give a handjob?

Ans. Even the most experienced man welcomes a bit of handwork. It can be a great way to transition from kissing and foreplay to intercourse. Thankfully, giving a handjob is not that daunting a task. When it comes to handjobs, it is definitely worth asking your partner at what speed, pressure and motion do they like it. A feather-light touch can surely be excellent to stimulate your man, but if you want to take things to the next level and unsure about what to do, we give you a low-down. Oral Sex, Boobgasm and Other Foreplay Tricks to Give Her the Best Orgasm Ever!

How Much Pressure Should You Put When You Give A Hand Job?

While a hand job feels good anyway, a good tug is essential. Wrap your fingers around their shaft and then stroke it up and down. It would help if you used a firm but gentle grip when you start moving your hands. If you can keep a steady pace, it is going to be the most pleasurable for them. Use both your hands and move then in the opposite or the same direction. You can also put one hand on their penis and the other one on their balls. Remember to be gentler with his balls than you were with his shaft.  If you are unsure of how tightly to hold and how much pressure to put on your grip, ask them to let you know whenever they feel a little uncomfortable. Blowjob Tips: How to Give Him the Best Head of His Life?

What Should Be The Grip On The Tip Of The Penis?

When you are moving on to the oh-so-sensitive tip of the penis, remember to be gentle as you might end up hurting your guy in the process. Another area that will give him moan-worthy pleasure is the ridge that runs along the whole underside of his penis known as the frenulum. Massage the area gently, and they will keep asking for more. Blowjob for the First Time? 6 WTF Things to Keep in Mind Before Going down on Your Man

If you want to make your handjob feel even better, try using a lube. Lube can help your hand slide and glide over their penis. Go for an oil-based lubricant if you are using the lube only for a handjob to ensure that it doesn't dry up like the water-based lube. If you do not want to taste the potential foul-tasting lube, using your saliva can make your transition to a blow job extremely easy.

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