You don’t have to be an avid reader of the Mumbai Mirror to know who Dr Mahindra Watsa is. The sassy sexologist has always made us chuckle with his witty and sarcastic replies to bizarre sex queries. But the usually smart-alecky sexpert was at his tamest best when he took over the Durex Twitter handle today, as he answered sex queries posed by Twitter users today. Dr Watsa is a part of Durex’s #MainAurMeriFantasy campaign that explores some of the real-life sexual fantasies of Indians. Topics like sex are still swept under the carpet in the country and scores of Indians don’t discuss or address problems in their sex life. The whole point of the Durex’s Twitter campaign is to get people to talk about sex and be open about their deepest darkest fantasies. It invited Twitter users for tête-à-tête with the sexologist who was only happy to address their private queries. Here are some of the questions Dr Watsa answered on Twitter.
On Role playing
A housewife was left stunned when her husband insisted she wear a nurse's costume in bed.
Dr. Watsa: If two persons agree, role playing is a perfectly fine way to spice your sex life. Should you wish to modify his request in any way speak to him in a quiet moment. #AskTheSexpert pic.twitter.com/s6mJfxKmtF
— Durex India (@DurexIndia) April 3, 2018
What to do when the condom breaks
One of the commonest accidents during sex is condom breakage. When a user addressed the issue, Dr Watsa suggested ways to avoid the mishap.
Dr. Watsa: The condom should rarely tear if properly put on. Please check the expiry date. At times if the partner is not excited and dry the friction could cause the tear. #AskTheSexpert pic.twitter.com/0TRpZDVSuL
— Durex India (@DurexIndia) April 3, 2018
Fantasising about the ex
This user found himself in a rather tricky situation, where he had to stop himself from screaming his ex’s name during sex.
Dr Watsa: Fantasizing is harmless particularly if it will help you have a better relationship with your wife. However your loudly announcing your ex’s name will certainly disturb your wife and will land you in a soup. (1/2) #AskTheSexpert pic.twitter.com/VlW7XX6IZW
— Durex India (@DurexIndia) April 3, 2018
Losing the libido
A young guy asked the sexpert whether abstaining from sex could affect his libido.
Dr. Watsa: Just as the man would serenade his lover in the older days and thus developed comfort and love for each other, then gradually went further similarly make her feel comfortable. Do not be in a hurry. (1/2) #AskTheSexpert pic.twitter.com/8cuwkzzOPE
— Durex India (@DurexIndia) April 3, 2018
Losing the spark after marriage
Dr Watsa has also addressed the very common sexual problem of losing the sexual spark after marriage.
Dr Watsa: Obviously your life needs to be bucked up. It is the Four Ts that you need to institute into your life. They are:
Trust
Time
Touch
Talk
(1/n) #AskTheSexpert pic.twitter.com/sTkzjoYoOj
— Durex India (@DurexIndia) April 3, 2018
Diet for a good sex life
It turns out, there is a formula for an awesome sex life – Good diet and a healthy lifestyle.
Dr. Watsa: Eating a well-balanced diet and taking certain supplements may help improve your overall health and sex life. It’s also important to avoid drinking too much alcohol, smoking, junk food and strictly avoid drugs. (1/n) #AskTheSexpert pic.twitter.com/hNPhhvUzLJ
— Durex India (@DurexIndia) April 3, 2018
Dr Watsa who’s known for his rib-tickling replies to ridiculous sexual queries was at his best behaviour on Twitter, answering all the queries in a paternal, dignified manner. But that doesn’t mean there was no mischief happening. Many Twitter users also capitalised on the opportunity to crack a few jokes of their own on everything from PM Modi to Rahul Gandhi. However, Durex's efforts at destigmatising sexual problems and creating an avenue for addressing them was well appreciated by the Twitterati.
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