Girlfriend Went Home With a Random Man She Met at the Club, Should I Dump Her?

Are you allowed to go home with random guys and blame it on the alcohol later? Well, only if you're single! This Reddit user is in a dilemma because his girlfriend ended up spending the night at a guy's place who she met in the club. She apparently went out clubbing with one of her girl friends. Both the ladies headed to the guy's residence but since her friend was 'sleepy' he left his place. Now when this user's girlfriend confronted him about the issue of staying back at a random guy's place, she assured him that nothing happened between them. She also convinced him that something like this wouldn't happen again. Should he trust his girlfriend? Well, why don't you ask her if she'd be okay if you went home with a random girl you met at the club. Now we're not doubting your girlfriend that she had sex with this random stranger but what we fail to understand is what was the need for her to stay back if her friend left. HELP! My Girlfriend Is a Narcissist, How Do I Deal With Her? – Relationship Query of the Day.

She was as drunk as her friend was so she could have possibly gone home with her. It is likely possible that she met this guy at the club, maybe they hung out for a while but going home with him is a different thing altogether! How would she have dealt with it had he turned out to be some psycho or a weirdo? What if he would have tried to force himself upon her, given that he was under the influence of alcohol and drugs too? She got herself into a very scary and risky situation and it's not cool to let go off of this so easily. You gotta explain to her the implications of taking such a big risk. Cheating Can save Your Relationship, Says Sexpert! What to Do When Your Lover Cheats.

Secondly, this might pierce right through your soul but we're gonna say it any way. No matter how drunk a person is, how can they forget they have a partner. She was fully aware and conscious of her relationship status and despite that, she chose to go home with a stranger. If she was sloshed, she could've called you to pick her up. Or maybe, she could've chosen to go home with her friend instead of choosing to stay back. Not that we're anyone to judge, but if you're thinking of continuing to date her, you gotta make this the first and last time she put herself in a dangerous situation like this.

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