Is it okay to cheat on your partner? Cheating is a deal-breaker in many relationships. However, sometimes when we're blinded by love, we cannot see anything beyond that one person. So even if they're cheating on you, you let go of it. Is it because you love them? Clearly not. It's only because you are so used to the idea of having this person around, that you're okay with the toxicity too. A cheating partner can be forgiven once, maybe, but what if he cheats on you over and over again? If you've been cheated by your partner once or more than that and you're still not ready to break- up with them, its time you take our advice seriously. Something similar happened with a user on Quora who explains how he's been dating a girl for over five years and that she's cheated on him not once, not twice but FIVE times! Yet, he is confused whether he should get married to her, but given her habit of cheating on him, he doesn't quite know how to deal with it.
RELATIONSHIP QUERY OF THE DAY: How to Deal With a Cheating Girlfriend?
A. Cheating is an unforgivable offence in any relationship. You might be someone who may have forgiven your partner of cheating on you but what if she does it again and again and again? Well, you dump her. Considering you guys are planning to get married and have a future together, it is safe to assume that you guys have been together for a long time. You've known her in and out. You know she has a tendency to not be loyal to you. She is also capable of repeating the same mistake again without even understanding the repercussions of it. She says she is sorry but does she really mean it if she keeps doing the same thing? HELP! My Girlfriend Is a Narcissist, How Do I Deal With Her? – Relationship Query of the Day.
This is no rocket science. There's not much thinking required here because it's kinda obvious that you need to get rid of her, isn't it? Having a cheating girlfriend/ wife around will only complicate your life more. Do you want to have this kind of toxicity in your life or do you think you deserve to be with someone who loves you and just you, unconditionally?
Another important aspect to consider is why is she cheating on you. Is it because of your emotional/ mental/ physical unavailability? A lot of times, we tend to give very less than what's expected of us in a relationship. Maybe that could be the reason for her to look for love outside your relationship with her. Not that we're trying to justify her but maybe you need to closely accurate what you're giving this relationship and take steps accordingly.
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